Discernment. Discernment. Discernment. This word will save you from a broken heart, a painful breakup, and a life spent wondering what could have been. Discernment is the ability to see things clearly, which is the key to making wise decisions in relationships. When you discern what God is saying about a relationship, you can avoid pain and heartache.
How do we develop discernment? This question has been asked throughout the ages by everyone, from great philosophers to ordinary folk. And it is a question that each of us must answer for ourselves. Discernment is the ability to see through deception and illusions, to understand the true nature of things. It is a quality that is essential for making wise decisions in life. But how do we develop discernment?
There is no easy answer, but perhaps the first step is becoming aware of our limitations. We must recognize that we cannot know everything and that we will make mistakes. We must also be honest with ourselves, admit when we don't know something and be willing to ask for help. These things may seem complicated, but they are essential if we want to develop discernment.
Another critical step is to learn to question everything. Question your assumptions, question what you're told, and challenge your own beliefs. Be open-minded and willing to consider new perspectives. And most importantly, don't be afraid to change your mind. This can be a complicated process, but it is essential if we want to develop discernment.
Discernment is a gift that not everyone has, but if you work on developing it, you'll be surprised at how much it can help you in your everyday life. Pay attention to the little things and be open to learning new things. With time and practice, you'll get better and better at discerning between what is good for you and what isn't.
So the next time you consider entering a relationship, make sure to listen for the voice of discernment. It just might save you from a lifetime of regret.
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