Do you feel like you're stuck in a cycle of pain and destruction?
Are you struggling with an unhealthy relationship?
In this blog, I'm sharing three steps you can use to break free from an ungodly soul tie,
HOW DO YOU BREAK FREE OF AN UNGODLY SOUL TIE?
- CONFESSION
Have you ever heard the saying ‘confession is good for the soul?’ well, it’s true!
JAMES 5:16 SAYS
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
In order to break free of an ungodly soul tie you must confess with your mouth so you can be healed.
FREEDOM comes from confessing not repressing
Confessing is letting it out
Repressing is holding it in and replaying it in your mind over and over again and that’s what the enemy wants you to do
This is where I stop and tell you I have a seven-step program where I guide you through this process so you can begin walking in your God-given FREEDOM
- SUBMISSION
Breaking free of an ungodly soul tie takes submitting your will to God
REMEMBER, Romans 7:19:says, For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing NIV
If you don’t know how to submit your will to God then do as James 1:5 says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” NIV
Ask God to give you wisdom on how to stop replying to his text messages, how to stop looking at his social media accounts, and how to stop wondering what he’s doing or he’s doing it with (I know because I've been there and done that)
- PROTECTION
Have you ever heard the word ‘boundary?’ of course you have.
Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” NIV
Guarding your heart (your mind) is why we set boundaries. When you set boundaries for yourself you are guarding your heart because he who controls the mind controls the feet!
WHAT IS A BOUNDARY?
There are physical boundaries and there are emotional boundaries
A boundary is a property line and just as a physical fence marks where your yard ends and where your neighbor’s yard begins that would be considered a physical boundary
Believe it or not, your body is property because it belongs to God. You can read that in 1 Corinthians 6:19
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF A BOUNDARY?
Boundaries are not for the other person; they are for YOU! Boundaries protect us by keeping good things in like peace of mind, and bad things out, like emotional stress.
When we allow someone else to cross a boundary we have set for ourselves we gain three things.
- We gain stress by taking on their problems because we no longer have pace.
- We gain limiting beliefs because our decisions become rooted in fear. Fear of what they think. Fear of what they say. Fear.
- We gain instability and start living a compromised life
When we enforce the boundaries we set for ourselves we gain three things:
- We gain control over our thoughts and emotions
- We gain confidence in our decisions and our abilities
- We gain clarity in our spiritual sight which elevates our beliefs and this is vital because now, we start believing we are worth the wait.
Boundaries define what we agree with and what we disagree with and when the enemy comes with his same ole tricks you can say, ‘he tried it but he didn’t win!
In the next blog, I'll share how to create healthy boundaries so you can stay free on your journey to finding love.
