It's no secret that dating is hard today, and in fact, it seems almost impossible to find the right person. But what if I told you there was a way to make it easier?
Hey, Dr. Shaw here, and I've been working with single women for many years, and most of them have tried all the different dating apps gone on all the dates, but nothing ever seemed to work for them until they started coaching with me.
But what if I told you the problem wasn't with them or the men they were dating? What if the problem was with how they were approaching dating altogether?
Keep reading and find out why dating is so hard today and what you can do about it!
Dating can be so hard today. You feel like you must put on your armor and go into battle just to find someone who might be worth your time. It seems like everyone is guarded and doesn't want to let their walls down. But why is dating so hard today?
There are a lot of relationships in the world today that are not healthy. In fact, many relationships are downright toxic. So, when you're out there dating, you're bound to come across some people who are just looking to take advantage of you. They might be manipulative or even abusive. And that's why it's important to be careful about who you let into your life.
One reason dating is so hard today is that it seems everyone is just looking for a hookup. With the advent of dating apps, it's become more accessible than ever to find someone to just have a physical relationship with - no strings attached. But meeting someone on the same page can be challenging if you're looking for something more meaningful.
Another reason dating seems so hard today is that there's just so much choice. With all the dating apps and websites, you can literally swipe through hundreds of people in a matter of minutes. And while it's great to have options, it can also be overwhelming. It's easy to become paralyzed by choice and end up not dating.
So how do you discern a man looking for a hookup or a hand up from one looking for a helpmate?
Good question? I'm glad you asked.
Here are a few questions you can ask yourself when you're out dating to help figure out what someone's intentions might be:
-Do they want to get to know me? Or are they just trying to get into my pants?
-Do they make an effort to see me? Or do they only text/call when they want something?
-Do they make me feel good about myself? Or do they make me feel like I'm not good enough?
-Do they respect my boundaries? Or do they try to push me into doing things I'm uncomfortable with?
When a man is genuinely into you, he'll make an effort to get to know you. He'll want to know your favorite food, what kind of music you like, and what your hobbies are. He'll also make an effort to see you - he'll ask you out on dates and actually follow through with them. And when he's with you, he'll make you feel good about yourself. He'll build you up, not tear you down. And he'll always respect your boundaries.
If a man is just looking for a hookup, he will not bother getting to know you. He doesn't care about your favorite food or what kind of music you like. All he cares about is getting into your pants. He'll also only contact you when he wants something - usually late at night or when he's drunk. And when he's with you, he'll try to push you into doing things you're uncomfortable with.
So, the next time you're out dating, pay attention to what a man is really doing, not just what he's saying. His actions will tell you everything you need to know about his intentions.
Here are three things you can do today to make dating easier:
-Set boundaries and stick to them.
-Be honest with yourself about what you're looking for.
-Don't settle for less than you deserve.
If you're looking for love, there's no need to settle. You can get my book bundle and discover the secrets to manifesting the love you desire and deserve. But remember, it all starts with you. Set boundaries, be honest with yourself about what you want, and don't be afraid to walk away from something that's not right for you. Dating can be challenging, but it doesn't have to be impossible. With a little effort, you can meet someone amazing who will make your life better.
